on Saturday, December 23, 2006

People say that love brings the most remarkable changes in a person's life, With my best friends getting committed,I am witnessing many such changes(initial stage changes) in them ,some strange,some cute, some with the innocence of a child, some stupid also........some of these which I noted most prominently are:

1.) Those people who used to get hyper on petty things and were ready to get pissed off if you tease them, every now and then ,now get senti most of the time on the same.

2.) All time blushing is the most significant sign ,and what is more interesting is the cute smile (:)) on any damm thing even if the thing is worth smile or not. Even while sitting idly or engaged in some work(as it appears so :P),they can be seen smiling not responding to anything for a while.

3.) Smiling even after crying or after getting emotional and sometimes both at the sametime. It appears to be true that
"Pyaar mein to khud ke aansoon bhi meethe lagte hain".

4.) Reading each line of chat, sms or cards hundred times whenever free and this has its peak frequency during the initial stages. I think that is what is reffered to as
"Holding Moments forever".

5.) Taking excess care of one's appearances ,standing in front of the mirror for hours, getting upset even if a single person passes a negative comment about one's looks ,then spending hours again for changing.

6.) Getting lost in their own dreamworld very often, unaware of what is going around. The world of fantasy appears to be more real than the reality itself.

7.) Those who are not committed look like kids to them ;"Leave it, you won't understand"; as if they have attained all the maturities of their lives by now :P.

8.) Talking on the phone (not to mention to whom) in almost a mute volume........ I wonder how the other is hearing or may be
"love needs no voice,it can feel the heart" :P

9.) Won't allow you to read even a single line of their chats or msgs even if their is nothing so personal in them or if it is allowed also, a continuous blushing will definitely be there :) .

10.) Tolerance power increases to the peak even for things which use to sound boring or non-interesting earlier.




9 comments:

neha said...

4 rk :nopes nt 4 me,u cant observe such changes in ur own self urself !!

Phoenix said...

This is so typically BHAVI.
bt I sure would be psyched when i come back see bhavi...

And honey, i dont think this applies to me...ot eve in those initial days...except my overall patience has increased.

neha said...

4 phoenix:-mam this is in general

n ask me whether it applies or nt!!:P

The Eternal Optimist said...

Noun: infatuation in'fachoo'eyshun
1.Foolish and usually extravagant passion or love or admiration
2.Temporary love of an adolescent
3.An object of extravagant short-lived passion

I guess that puts all your 10 observations into 3 (perhaps, more concise and laconic) sentences.

Vik said...

They say research papers can't be an interesting read.
Here I found an exception!

neha said...

for ''the introvert''
well thanks!
bt it was nt the outcome of any research!

neha said...

for ''the introvert''
well thanks!
bt it was nt the outcome of any research!

Metallica bhakt! said...

too gud..experienced the same wid so many ppl all around me..thn evn the 'im doin it for him'tag comes up..

....... said...

i think love is very nice feeling. actually i was also thinking the same but after u r in love these are the reality.