on Monday, June 11, 2007

I often wonder whenever I hear the words
"love is everlasting."
"Two couples ready to die for each other."
"Thousands of promises made for the coming years"
“Their company and being with each other was something pre-decided."
"It’s all a question of finding who has being made for you."
"They will be together forever."
"Love grows each moment."

I know this is all genuine, no offence indeed to these feelings, even I appreciate it all whenever there is a thing called TRUTH n TRUST in a relation.

But deep down within my heart a thought always springs up…………Isn’t all this a mere question of whom you met first in life, sequence of events shaped up and you are together today with a faith that this togetherness will be everlasting. A different someone, a different sequence, a different stage would have been there if the first one would not have occurred or will be there if the so-called "the first" shatters. Who after all has seen the future or what it may have in store which we didn’t even think of because all has once occurred and looks PERFECT.

Is it all really perfection or sheer luck of life at the first incidence that took place.

I also believe that love is beautiful, true, calm, pure but than what about these thoughts.

One can never deny the fact that all will be there till the course of even don’t take a reverse turn, a single instant (on part of anyone of the two) can blow away everything, then where is the thing called LOVE(the ever growing one), a long association, how could it be everlasting if everything goes in vain in front of this "single instant".

9 comments:

Phoenix said...

Life isn't lived in "would-have-beens" and "could-have-beens" dear..

And to your question about the "first" being apparently perfect for us, think again. You'd realise the chance comes to us oftener and before the one person. We meet a lot of people, and it doesn't feel right with a lot of them and so it doesnt work out. People may fall for us, we dont. Isn't it? But the day we do fall for someone and our heart does feel right n good about it, maybe, it is right and it is perfect.
Or maybe not. Mistakes happen still. But luck and the inner voice go together. Both for the making and the breaking of a relationship.

Frpm another point of view, what is life but a series of wat looks like coincidences.

neha said...

@phoenix
wat r co-incidences then , arent they realted to ''could have beens''

and my main point is the thing called everlastin love which shatters at the hands any damm mishappennings, is it so weak?

Phoenix said...

Nothing lasts forever. Nothing.

neha said...

@phoenix
I know tht, forever is a thing far far beyond to think of,wen moments are enough to change things.

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neha said...

@KGP
so gud to see ur comment
thnx!!

Leonius said...

love is never something that is meant to happen. Its a process engineered by part coincidence and part choice.
The sequence of events controlled by conscious or unconscious decisions culminate into a situation where you choose to be in love. And this choice is at your discretion at ALL times.
nothing is forever, unless it becomes your decision to make it forever.

neha said...

@leonius
mere decisions can't control everything
it's easy to take dem, bt difficult to live on them at times....bt nyway that is human:)
thnx 4 ur comment